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One thing we don\u2019t do enough of as adults: celebrate our birthdays.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Think about it. Our birthdays are a huge accomplishment every year. They\u2019re a great time to reflect on the previous year and set intentions for the year to come.\u00a0<\/p>\n

And between surviving the year and the work we\u2019re doing to set out for a great new year, we deserve a celebration. That\u2019s why we\u2019re declaring that birthday party for adults should make a big comeback.<\/p>\n

Plus, birthday parties are one of the rare opportunities we get to have all of our loved ones in one place. And it\u2019s a day that\u2019s all about YOU. What could be better?\u00a0<\/p>\n

But we\u2019ll admit, planning a birthday party for adults can be stressful. There\u2019s a lot to consider. Just ask Lauryn about Zaza\u2019s Pineapple Soiree and Eloise Birthday. It takes major work, even when you have help.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t sweat it though, we have you covered with both practical and creative tips for throwing the BEST birthday party for adults you\u2019ve ever had. Plus, we\u2019ve got some adult birthday party ideas for themes that are sure to kick off a good time.<\/p>\n

How To Throw A Great Birthday Party For Adults<\/h2>\n

Tip #1: Choose a date.<\/h3>\n

The first step in any party planning venture is to pick a date. For a birthday party for adults, you\u2019ll want to decide whether or not to have it on your actual birthday. Of course, you\u2019ll also want to consider your guests\u2019 other engagements like, having a birthday party on a Tuesday may not be the move, even if it\u2019s your actual birthday. So choose that date and mark it down on all your calendars\/planners.<\/p>\n

HOT TIP: choose a date between 2 weeks and 1 month ahead of time to give your party goers plenty of time to plan.<\/p>\n

Tip #2: Set a budget.<\/h3>\n

To know what you want to do, you\u2019ve gotta know what you want to spend to celebrate your birthday. Are you going all out for your birthday bash, or keeping it more casual? Your budget may make a difference here.<\/p>\n

Tip #3: Decide on a theme.<\/h3>\n

Is the theme the most important part of your birthday party planning? Maybe not, but it\u2019s definitely up there. Your theme determines the look and the vibe of your party and if you\u2019re a diva like we are, it\u2019s probably also going to determine your outfit.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Pick a theme that matches how you want to feel and how you want your guests to feel at the party. For theme party ideas, keep scrolling\u2013we\u2019ve got some down below.<\/p>\n

Tip #4: Pick your venue.<\/h3>\n

There are some things you\u2019ll want to consider before you pick your venue: your budget (of course), your theme, how many guests you\u2019ll be inviting, and how long you want your party to be.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Obviously, you want your venue to match your theme, but you also want it to be comfortable and fun for your guests for as long as you\u2019ll be there. Some solid venues include bars, Airbnbs, VRBOs, hotel party rooms, or your own house.<\/p>\n

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Tip #5: Create your guest list.<\/h3>\n

Now it\u2019s time to consider the who\u2019s who of your friends and family: your guest list. First and foremost, you want to ensure that your guest list reflects the atmosphere you want for your party. If you\u2019re keeping it small, you may only want to invite your closest friends. However, if you\u2019re throwing a big bash, grandma might not be on the invite list. Moreover, these little details can make a significant difference in the execution of your party.<\/p>\n

Tip #6: Set your itinerary.<\/h3>\n

Now that you\u2019ve got your guest list, you\u2019ve got to have an itinerary that matches the vibe of your party and your guests. Even if your party is more of an open-house-style get-together, you\u2019re going to want to have a plan for things like when the food and drink will be served, when any planned activities might happen (like singing Happy Birthday), and when the party will end. But either way, that\u2019s something you\u2019re going to want to have a plan for.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Tip #7: Send out your invitations.<\/h3>\n

The timing of this tip is CRUCIAL. You want to send out invitations with enough time that people can plan for your party, without feeling like it\u2019s a last-minute assignment.\u00a0If you want to get super fun with it, we highly recommend using Bliss & Bone. They do evites as well as paper invitations, know how much details matter and always deliver the most high-quality, exciting invitations.<\/p>\n

Tip #8: Determine party favors.<\/h3>\n

Remember when we were kids and we ALWAYS left birthday parties with a goodie bag? Party favors are by no means a must-have, but they do have a nice touch to them.\u00a0Some of Lauryn\u2019s favorite party favors are candles from TSC or Taja, Beekeeper\u2019s Naturals and custom candy by Lana Nicole.<\/p>\n

HOT TIP: Make your party even more memorable by tying your party favors to your theme.<\/p>\n

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Tip #9: Decorate at many heights.<\/h3>\n

We learned this tip from Lauryn\u2019s friend Faith, who threw a killer 30th birthday bash at a VRBO in Beverly Hills. Where a lot of people may simply have a \u201cHappy Birthday\u201d banner or have a table where the presents go, you want to create an amazing visual effect at every level from the ceiling to the floor.\u00a0<\/p>\n

How do you do this? We recommend lots and lots of balloons. They are super affordable and bring all the birthday vibes to the environment, whether you\u2019ve got helium balloons placed strategically, a balloon arch for photos, or balloons scattered throughout the party on the floor, all 3 are good options.<\/p>\n

HOT TIP: Splurge for the balloon weights and cut the strings at different lengths so it will look like a sea of balloons.<\/p>\n

Tip #10: Photos, photos, photos.<\/h3>\n

Did you really have a bangin\u2019 birthday bash if you didn\u2019t get any photos of it? Some would say no. However, of course, you can have an amazing party without the perfect pics to post afterward. But chances are, you\u2019re going to want to remember this party. Therefore, make it easy on your guests by getting a polaroid or two with lots of film. Additionally, set up a table with a guest book and fun markers so your guest can write in it. This way, guests can take a picture, tape it into the book, and write out a memory. And the perfect keepsake for you.<\/p>\n

Or, you can also go the professional route and hire a photographer to staff a photo booth. It\u2019s up to you, babes! Either way, the results will be picture-perfect.<\/p>\n

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10 Birthday Party Themes For Adults<\/h3>\n

Dinner Party<\/h4>\n

A dinner party is always a classy, yet simple option for a Birthday party for adults. Make food ahead of time, or cater food in. Then, sit down with your besties and enjoy.<\/p>\n

Game Night<\/h4>\n

Everyone loves a party with an activity. It gives your more shy guests something to focus on until they can come out of their shell. Additionally, it\u2019s just fun. You can pick your favorite games and get them prepped to play. From classic board games to interactive group activities, there\u2019s something for everyone. Moreover, if you\u2019re having a big party, use the games as centerpieces on different tables. It\u2019s an easy icebreaker and a damn good time. Furthermore, you can even organize a tournament or set up stations with different games for variety. The possibilities are endless, and it\u2019s a fantastic way to ensure everyone has a blast at your party.<\/p>\n

Costume Party<\/h4>\n

While many adults still have a love for dressing up, we just don\u2019t get to indulge in it as much anymore. However, you can change that with a costume party. Whether you keep it general for Halloween-like vibes or get specific for something more targeted, the choice is yours. Personally, we adore a masquerade theme. Bring on the ball gowns.<\/p>\n

Cocktail Party<\/h4>\n

Have a birthday happy hour. Hire a bartender to serve up your favorite cocktails. Then, simply host the party. <\/p>\n

PS: Want to elevate your party even more? Check out these tips on making smoked cocktails that are perfect for parties.<\/p>\n

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Murder Mystery Party<\/h4>\n

If you loved Knives Out, then this may be the party for you. Murder mystery parties involve a game of whodunnit, and they can be tons of fun. Pit your friends against each other in a crime-solving bash that\u2019ll go down in the history books. Who\u2019s the killer? It\u2019s got to be one of you\u2026There are companies you can hire to set this all up for you.<\/p>\n

Spa Day Party<\/h4>\n

Want to keep your party chill and relaxed while also feeling bougie? A spa day party is the move. Play your favorite music, get out your TSC-brand products, and relax.<\/p>\n

Here are some of our spa day favorites:<\/p>\n

+ Ice roller for depuffing and debloating puffy skin<\/p>\n

+ Face massager to relieve muscle tension + contour your face<\/p>\n

+ Depuffing oil to restore skin\u2019s natural moisture barrier<\/p>\n

Wine and Cheese Party<\/h4>\n

It doesn\u2019t get classier than this. Pop open a few bottles of wine and bring out the charcuterie.\u00a0We love this set from Williams Sonoma.<\/p>\n

Crafting Party<\/h4>\n

This is another great option for having an activity-based party: crafting. Everyone loves getting creative, and your crafting projects can double as party favors.<\/p>\n

What kind of crafts should you plan? It\u2019s totally up to you. If you have a relatively crafty crew, each guest can bring their own works-in-progress to work on together. If you want something you can do together, try painting canvases, needlepoint or making jewelry.<\/p>\n

Birthday Brunch Party<\/h4>\n

Everyone, and we mean everyone, loves a birthday brunch. (Especially a boozy one.) Consider making a reservation at your favorite brunch spot, or have brunch catered in at your venue of choice.<\/p>\n

Pool Party<\/h4>\n

This one\u2019s probably only an option if, like Lauryn, you\u2019re lucky enough to have a late spring\/summer birthday. But it\u2019s SUCH a good option. After all, it\u2019s impossible to have a bad time at a pool party. Just make sure you Get the Fuck Out of the Sun with some sunscreen and a solid sun hat.<\/p>\n

Bonus Tips & Tricks for an Epic Birthday<\/h3>\n

\u2605 Make It a Weekend Affair:<\/strong> Instead of one night, go big and make it a whole weekend! Kick things off with a dinner Friday night, a chill brunch Saturday, and recovery mimosas Sunday. Stretching the celebration<\/strong> means you actually get to spend time with everyone\u2014without rushing.<\/p>\n

\u2605 Build a Signature Drink:<\/strong> Every legendary party has a signature cocktail. Create one named after you\u2014\u201cThe Dominique Spritz,\u201d anyone? Have a mocktail version too, so everyone feels included.<\/p>\n

\u2605 Lighting Is Everything:<\/strong> Soft lighting = instant vibe.<\/strong> Fairy lights, candles, and LED strips can completely transform your space from meh to magical. Want that \u201cmain character moment\u201d? Add a disco ball or a few neon signs.<\/p>\n

\u2605 Don\u2019t Forget the Playlist:<\/strong> The wrong music can kill the mood fast. Mix nostalgic hits, current bops, and a few guilty pleasures. Spotify tip:<\/strong> Make a collaborative playlist so guests can add their favorite songs too.<\/p>\n

\u2605 Create a Photo Moment:<\/strong> Set up a mini \u201ccontent corner\u201d with props and good lighting. Your friends will love you for the Instagram backdrop.<\/strong> Bonus points if you add a party hashtag.<\/p>\n

\u2605 Keep It Flowing:<\/strong> Avoid long lulls by planning your \u201cparty beats\u201d\u2014that\u2019s when food, music, and energy peak. Keep the drinks refilled and the conversation going.<\/p>\n

\u2605 Be the Chill Host:<\/strong> The best parties are relaxed because the host is relaxed. Don\u2019t get caught in the kitchen all night.<\/strong> Delegate tasks, prep ahead, and actually enjoy your own celebration.<\/p>\n

\u2605 Add Personal Touches:<\/strong> Use old photos as d\u00e9cor or write a thank-you note on each guest\u2019s place card. It\u2019s thoughtful and totally unforgettable.<\/p>\n

\u2605 Plan a Little Surprise:<\/strong> Maybe it\u2019s a cake that lights up, a surprise performer, or a nostalgic video montage. That unexpected moment<\/strong> makes your birthday stand out.<\/p>\n

\u2605 The After-Party Glow-Up:<\/strong> Send guests home with a midnight snack bag\u2014think cookies, electrolyte packets, and a cute note that says, \u201cThanks for coming to my chaos.\u201d It\u2019s extra, but it\u2019s also iconic.Celebrate yourself. Whether you\u2019re throwing a cozy dinner party or a wild rooftop bash, the most important part is that it feels like you.<\/em>Because birthdays aren\u2019t about perfection\u2014they\u2019re about presence.<\/strong><\/p>\n

What kind of birthday party fun are you planning this year?<\/h4>\n

Do you have any party planning tips we missed? Let us know below.<\/p>\n

Need help planning your other parties? We\u2019ve got great tips for planning a bachelorette party or a kid\u2019s birthday party.<\/p>\n

x, The Skinny Confidential team<\/p>\n

+ How to throw a cocktail party at home. <\/em><\/p>\n

++ Tips for throwing a sip and see.<\/em><\/p>\n

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